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12 Best Sex Positions for an FFM Threesome You Should Try

Updated: Mar 7, 2023



Let’s be real, FFM threesomes are a real treat. There are three sexy, naked people getting down and dirty together. There’s a reason having a threesome makes the cut on so many people’s bucket lists, and threesomes are one of the most popular porn categories.

You may be coming together as three individuals, or perhaps you’re a couple who has been longing to spice things up with your mutual FFM threesome fantasy. So, if you’ve got two willing participants who are ready to explore your body and each other’s, it sounds like you’re in for one hell of a party.

There really aren’t any golden rules of threesomes, other than of course, safety, consent and making sure you’re all on the same page. Once all that is squared away, the next step is the logistics. If you’re here looking to spice things up with some exciting new FFM threesome sex positions to impress your playmates, let’s get into it - we have some that we’re sure you’re bound to love.


12 Sex Positions for FFM Threesome You Should Try

The Switch Up


As the male in the FFM threesome (lucky you), direct both of your partners to face away from you on all fours. Lube up your hands and start stroking one of their vulvas. When the other partner wants their turn, they yell “switch” and you play with them. This continues, with the two females fighting for your attention. Having a threesome can be a little daunting, especially if it’s your first time, so this position is a bit of a playful ice-breaker.

The Centre of Attention

Now, this is probably one of the FFM threesome sex positions you will fantasise about for years to come. Just what it sounds like, one person is chosen to be the centre of attention. If there is an established couple present, you might nominate the unicorn (Read: Unicorn Dating Sites to Find a Unicorn for Couples), but there are no rules of threesomes - so mix it up however you feel.

Anyway, the chosen partner lies down and has both partners focus on pleasuring their whole body at the same time. You might use hands, tongues, toys, ice cubes, or whatever else turns them on.


The Ultimate Fantasy


If having an FFM threesome has been a fantasy of yours for a long time, you have undoubtedly been turned on at the thought of this position. One female partner is getting penetrated by the male from behind, whilst she goes to town performing oral on the second female partner. As far as threesome sex positions go, this really is a must-try.


The Learner

This is another great icebreaker scenario and is particularly recommended if one partner is not as experienced at threesomes and wants to learn by watching before they jump straight in.

Essentially, one person takes on an observational role and watches the other partners get it on. They may offer a hand here and there or just sit back until they feel comfortable enough to fully participate.


The Spectator


This may sound similar to The Learner because it involves two partners being watched by a third, but it’s a little different. This position is more about choosing to step back whilst having a threesome, and watch your two other partners have sex because it turns you on to watch, and/or it turns them on to be watched. Plus, you can join the action again as soon as you’re ready.


Two Cowgirls are Better than One


This FFM threesome position is just like the traditional cowgirl position you’re probably used to - a female on top, facing the male whilst she rides him as if she were a, well, cowgirl. The only difference in this scenario is that he also has a second female riding his face at the same time so he can perform oral on her.


The Lucky Dip


This is another one of the highly fantasised threesome sex positions. If you’re a female who really wants to explore the female in your FFM threesome experience, this one’s for you.

The two women lay on top of each other, where they kiss, grind, touch, etc. At the same time, the man can position himself behind them, so he can take turns penetrating them.

The All Aboard

This FFM threesome position is where the three of you essentially form a train with your bodies. Picture this, the male is penetrating the first female in a doggy-style position, whilst the second woman, also in a doggy-style position, is in front of her receiving oral sex. As the male, you get a fantastic view of the action.

The Oral Presentation

As far as having a threesome goes, this is really one of the FFM threesome sex positions that really gives everyone a spectacular view that is sure to turn them on.

The two females position themselves on their backs with their bottoms touching, legs in the air but cradled towards them. The guy goes to town, performing oral on one partner at a time, whilst stimulating the other with toys or his hand.

The Three’s a Party


For a female who really loves being the centre of the man’s attention, whilst enjoying performing oral on another woman, this really is one of the best threesome sex positions for you.

One woman lies on the edge of the bed, with the man standing up penetrating her. The second woman is then riding her face, whilst facing away from the man. It can be a little exhausting, but it’s certainly fun while it lasts.


The Voyeur

This is one of those great FFM threesome sex positions that can work as an icebreaker for an all-in experience, or it can be the main event for couples who maybe aren’t ready to jump into a “full threesome”.


A man has sex with one of the women in doggy-style, while they watch the other woman get herself off with her hand or toys while she watches them. Whether you begin in this position until everyone feels comfortable, or stay like this, it is sure to be an enjoyable FFM threesome experience.


The Triangle

As the name probably suggests, this is an FFM threesome position where you all form a triangle with your bodies. With each partner lying on their side, facing the centre, each is able to perform oral on the next partner. If need be, you can use pillows to prop your heads into the best positions for this simultaneous oral show.

Using your tongue to pleasure someone whilst the same is being done to you is one of the hottest experiences, and as far as threesome sex positions, this one is a real winner.



Tips for the best FFM threesome you could ever fantasise about

  • Keep it clean - Don’t worry, we’re talking about hygiene here. Keep your mind dirty but your body clean. Be sure to shower before you get each other all dirty again

  • Safety first - Be sure to always practise safe sex and be aware of when a condom needs to be changed

  • Have plenty of lube on hand - both the classic kind and some fun, tasty ones for oral sex. Massage oils are a great idea too!

  • Plan out the experience you want to have, including any toys and stimulants to spice things up.

  • Be sure to track the mood of your partners through body language and facial expressions. It’s important to catch a vibe for when you should shake things up into a new position for maximum enjoyment

  • We all get a little self-conscious from time to time, especially when it comes to stripping down, baring our bodies, and becoming vulnerable with other people. Try and remember these people are here to enjoy your body because they want to be. Push your insecurities aside, and just let go and have fun

  • If your long-term partner is present in the FFM threesome, be sure to focus on them to ensure they never feel left out by you

  • People need different things after sex, so some people may want to debrief and chat about the experience, some may want to cuddle, and some may want to leave immediately and get on with their life. It is what it is, so just let them do their thing.

The key to the perfect FFM threesome

If you’re planning on having an FFM threesome, remember, the only golden rule of threesomes is ensuring all three parties are on the same page with what is going to occur - in terms of consent, safety, etc.

Other than that, we hope we’ve left you with some great FFM threesome sex positions to empower you to have one hell of a night with your playmates. If you play your cards right and use some of our positions, you may be soon planning your next threesome together!

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